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Describe a time you had to persuade someone.

Why they ask this

Influence without authority is a critical skill. Interviewers want to see that you can build a compelling case, understand other perspectives, and drive alignment — not just push harder.

How to answer

STAR with emphasis on understanding their perspective first, then your approach to building the case.

Sample strong answer

Use STAR. Show you understood their perspective before making your case.

Example: 'Our engineering lead was resistant to adding A/B testing infrastructure — he felt it was premature and would slow down shipping. I needed to get his buy-in to move the roadmap forward.

Before pushing my view, I spent an hour understanding his objections. His core concern was that we'd over-engineer it and spend a sprint on infrastructure with no immediate payoff. That was fair.

I came back with a proposal that directly addressed that: a lean version that would take 3 days, not a sprint, and a clear example of a decision we'd gotten wrong the previous quarter that A/B testing would have caught. I connected the cost of that mistake to the cost of the infrastructure.

He agreed to the lean version. It shipped in 3 days. Within 6 weeks, it had already changed two major product decisions. He became the biggest advocate for expanding it.'

Key tips
Show you understood their position first
Data + emotional appeal together work best
Include any resistance you overcame
End with the positive outcome for everyone
Common mistakes
Making it sound like you overpowered someone
Not showing you understood the other person's view
Focusing too much on being 'right'
No concrete outcome
Likely follow-ups
How do you handle it when persuasion fails?
What's the hardest person you've ever had to influence?

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